{"product_id":"everybody-fights-by-kim-penn-holderness","title":"Everybody Fights by Kim \u0026 Penn Holderness","description":"\u003cp class=\"ng-star-inserted\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eA USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestseller!\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eLearn how to fight better and end your arguments with your partner feeling closer, more loved, and better understood.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eWe take our cars in for oil changes. We mow our lawns and pull weeds. Why don't we do maintenance on our marriages? This relationship is the most important one we will ever have, so why not get better at it?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eFor the last several years, Penn and Kim Holderness of The Holderness Family have done the hard maintenance and the research to learn how to fight better. With the help of their marriage coach Dr. Christopher Edmonston, they break down their biggest (and in some cases, funniest) fights. How did a question about chicken wings turn into a bra fight (no, not a bar fight or a bra fight)? How did a roll of toilet paper lead to tears, resentment, and a stint in the guest bedroom?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eWith their trademark sense of humor and complete vulnerability, Penn and Kim share their 10 most common Fight Fails and how to combat them. Throughout the book, they offer scripts for how to start, continue, and successfully close hard conversations. Couples will emerge equipped to engage and understand, not do battle—and maybe laugh a little more along the way.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eIn\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eEverybody Fights\u003c\/em\u003e, couples will learn how to:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\n\u003cli data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eUse \"magic words\" for healthy conflict resolution\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eAddress unspoken and unrealistic expectations\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eBanish the three Ds of unhealthy communication—distraction, denial, and delay\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eCarry individual baggage while helping your partner deal with theirs\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003ePenn and Kim want you to know you're not alone. Everybody fights. Marriage is messy. Marriage is work. But marriage is worth it. Fight for it!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"ng-star-inserted\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003eAuthor Bio:\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"author\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003eKim Holderness\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"ng-star-inserted\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003eKim Holderness was born and raised in Sarasota, Florida, and was a competitive dancer (once crowned Miss Dance Florida).  She went to the University of Florida, then began her career in TV journalism. Penn and Kim met in Orlando while working in local news and were married in 2005. In 2013 they left the TV business and launched a digital content company called Greenroom Communications. Part of that launch was a video called “Xmas Jammies” that went viral, and led to appearances on\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eGMA\u003c\/em\u003e, the\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eToday Show\u003c\/em\u003e, Fox News Channel, and CNN. (Apparently Xmas Jammies are bipartisan.)  The Holderness Family currently lives in Raleigh with their dog, Sunny.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"ng-star-inserted\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003eAuthor Bio:\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"author\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003ePenn Holderness\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"ng-star-inserted\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" _ngcontent-ilf-c245=\"\"\u003ePenn Holderness was born in Durham, North Carolina, to a Presbyterian minister and a public school teacher. He was super into Boy Scouts, show choir, and synthesizers as a kid, so he wasn’t exactly a ladies’ man. He went to the University of Virginia, then started a two-decade career in TV journalism. Penn and Kim met in Orlando while working in local news and were married in 2005. In 2013 they left the TV business and launched a digital content company called Greenroom Communications. Part of that launch was a video called “Xmas Jammies” that went viral and led to appearances on\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eGMA\u003c\/em\u003e, the\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eToday Show\u003c\/em\u003e, Fox News Channel, and CNN. (Apparently Xmas Jammies are bipartisan.) The Holderness Family currently lives in Raleigh with their dog, Sunny.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Harper-Collins Christian Publishing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46554333413695,"sku":"9780785235729","price":26.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0728\/7731\/0271\/files\/9780785235729.jpg?v=1705156730","url":"https:\/\/morningstarbookstore.com\/products\/everybody-fights-by-kim-penn-holderness","provider":"Morning Star Christian Bookstores","version":"1.0","type":"link"}